| Dr Sue Bagshaw |
WomanZone is a New Zealand made product with
all sorts of wonderful ingredients. The active one is designed
to increase the circulation to the clitoris, in the same way
that Viagra assists circulation & therefore erection,
in the penis.
There has been much discussion about the value of this and
other gels of simliar nature. My view is that the important
part is to encourage women to enjoy sexual pleasure whether
by masturbation, use of a gel (such as WomanZone) or during
making love with a partner. When both partners enjoy receiving
as well as giving pleasure it makes for a much improved mutually
beneficial relationship.
"Libido issues are different for older and younger women,"
says Dr Bagshaw. "For younger women there are performance
issues, because their world is dominated by outcomes. Performance
assessments at work are transferred to sexuality, too.
"Also, we all know that different things turn men and
women on." Yes, these are vast generalisations,"
she agrees, but valid nonetheless. There are also religious,
cultural and perhaps historical personal considerations. If
there is repressed anger or guilt about the past, then low
libido results.
Attitudes and beliefs play an important part too: women might
not believe that they should not enjoy sex, for instance.
"I grew up referring to my genitals as the part "down
there" and "between my legs", remembers Diana.
"Considering that we didn't even use the right terminology,
it was not hard to make the association that anything sexual
was dirty." Having resorted to marriage guidance counseling
with her husband, Diana learnt to enjoy her sexuality. "At
the age of 54 I had my first orgasm!" she declares, delighted.
What changed? Diana bought a topical gel that was recently
released in Australia and New Zealand. "It's turned my
life around."
Sue Bagshaw adds, "Women need to learn to pleasure themselves."
Dr Sue Bagshaw BSc, MBBS, FACSHP
Senior Doctor 198 Youth Health
Past Medical Training Co-ordinator NZFPA Southern Region.
Sue has worked in the area of sexual and reproductive health
and youth health for the last 20 years.
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